By Tracy Fischer
When a couple marries one of the big decisions made initially will be…. what last name the female spouse will use. There may be a difference of opinion that will need to be ironed out. Will she keep her maiden name, will she take her new husband’s name or will the name be hyphenated? Many women see this change as an exciting rite of passage. What impact will this name have on the children they hope to have. This decision has a far- reaching impact that is often not considered at the time when the relationship is happy and the marriage is intended to last forever.
Some women look at their last name as a key part of their identity. Others may have always disliked their original last name because of spelling complications or not like the sound of it and be very excited to take a new name. Some may feel that the transition from their family of origin to a new family with their new partner will be solidified by having the same name.
If a couple then later decide to divorce, again the female spouse will have a decision to make. Should she keep the name she is used to, may be using professionally and is the same as her children? Should she return her maiden name immediately, which may be a time consuming and paper-ridden process?